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A scientific study looked at the main reasons for divorce in 1997. Six causes were described by psychologists at the time. You will be surprised to see that they are still relevant today.
Have you ever wondered what the main reasons for divorce are? Experts have been looking into this question for many years now. In 1997, a study published in the journal Marriage and Family analyzed a decade of data from married couples to understand why some end up divorcing. Reasons that are still relevant today.
Unfaithfulness
Getting married is – among other things – a vow of fidelity. But in some marriages, this promise ends up being broken. This can only lead to a feeling of betrayal for the deceived partner. While it is not insurmountable for some people, infidelity deals a blow to the marriage contract and makes it difficult to restore trust in the couple.
In fact, studies have shown that infidelity is not just a physical act but also a violation of emotional commitment and integrity, two essential elements of the marriage bond.
To throw money around
Having a husband or wife who spends money without counting is one of the causes of marital disputes. Especially when it comes to unnecessary expenses or those that jeopardize the couple’s financial balance. The issue goes even further than that, for experts: it is a question of respect and communication, key elements for a healthy and lasting relationship.
Drug or alcohol addiction
Excessive alcohol or drug use (or more serious, addiction) can put a strain on a marriage. Substance use disorders can impair behavior and judgment and lead to emotional instability in the user. Other negative factors, such as financial difficulties, neglect of spousal responsibilities, and emotional distance in the relationship also contribute to marital conflict. All of these factors often lead to divorce.
Excessive jealousy
Excessive jealousy often reflects underlying issues of low self-esteem and fear of abandonment. All of this can lead to obsessive thoughts, accusations, and attempts to control one’s partner’s actions. This is not very positive for the couple, not to mention that jealousy also erodes the emotional connection between partners.
A bad mood
Chronic bad moods or emotional volatility can put a strain on marital relationships by creating an unpredictable and tense atmosphere at home. These mood swings subsequently lead to conflicts in the couple, but also to emotional distance and difficulty resolving differences calmly. All of these parameters also promote divorce.
Annoying habits
Bad habits are finally a threat to the couple. Whether it is leaving dirty laundry on the floor, constant lateness or persistent forgetfulness, these habits can exhaust the patience and goodwill of the spouse. And cause frequent arguments, which will damage the couple’s relationship in the long run.
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