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According to many seduction coaches, a very particular way of looking at your crush would put all the chances on your side to seduce him. If the method is not very scientific, it can always be tested this summer during meetings.
It would only take one look to make your crush fall in love with you. Does that seem crazy to you? However, that is what is put forward in several TikTok videos (from seduction experts, apparently) thanks to the “triangle” method. One of them in particular has attracted more than 17 million views on TikTok.
What is the triangle method?
In this video, Sophie Rose Lloyd, a confident young woman, explains how to use the triangle method in several steps. The technique is, in fact, a coded eye game, very simple and yet extremely effective to seduce a person according to her.
The idea is to make a triangular movement with your eyes facing your crush:
- Just look at the left eye of the person facing you for 1 second
- Then turn your gaze to her lips for 2 seconds
- Before looking at his right eye to complete the 3 vertices of the triangle.
According to her, this triangle method won’t necessarily work with strangers, but it’s likely to work with someone who likes you. However, you have to do this alone, one-on-one (in a group, it doesn’t work, and you’ll look a bit disoriented…).
Why can it work?
The triangle method is not an exact science, as you will have understood. However, it is not stupid: it is proven that establishing prolonged eye contact with a person can increase attraction and passion and help create a certain intimacy while warming up the atmosphere a little… provided, however, that you measure your gaze well, which can also become too insistent (and make the other person uncomfortable).
The triangle method invites you to do the opposite: look at the other person, then cut off contact as if out of shyness, before daring to look again. If done subtly, this gesture can let your interest show, but also your vulnerability to create a connection. However, it will not be able to make the other person truly fall in love.
One might also think that the young woman in question is more successful because of her confidence than because of her studied eye contact. But in the end, if you’re trying to show someone that you like them, you’re not risking much by trying to glance at them.