Sexual harmony of married couples is one of the cornerstones of the concept of family. This harmony brings a peaceful family environment.
A happy marriage allows spouses to be emotionally, physically and socially close, whereas an unhappy and disharmonious marriage negatively affects the lives of spouses in many aspects. One of the issues that makes some women unhappy in marriage is sexual dissatisfaction.
Research Res. at the International Health Sciences and Life Congress. Asst. Ayşe Deliktaş Demirci and Prof. Dr. In Kamile Kabukçuoğlu’s research; It has been shown that low marital harmony also reduces sexual satisfaction.
So what do women do when they are not satisfied?
According to the research; 53% of women fake orgasms. Although the main reason for this imitation is to make your partner happy and feel good, the person may actually experience some problems in his social life due to this dissatisfaction.
Women who have a good marriage and a happy life may realize over time that they are not satisfied with sexual intercourse. This becomes a problem in their lives, they experience internal contradictions and can reflect this tension to their spouses. At this point, day by day, they begin to think that they are not liked by their spouses and that they are unsuccessful, but since they do not want to talk about the issue, they focus on different issues and put this problem in the background. As internal tension continues, issues that would not pose a problem under normal circumstances become a problem and discussions begin. Even sleeping in the same room in the evenings becomes difficult, and this tension grows like an avalanche and reaches an inextricable point.
Although the reason why spouses do not talk about sexuality while sharing a life is due to women’s shyness, this situation actually makes their spouses unhappy. Don’t look at it from the perspective of just making your spouse happy. When you are truly happy, you will make your spouse happy anyway.
According to research, some women stated that they do not mind being sexually dissatisfied, but when their partners raise this issue, they feel pressure and turn it into a matter of success.
This is not a failure of women, it is due to some timidity, some ignorance, perhaps putting oneself in the background.
But this is an issue that needs to be talked about. Maybe you don’t realize that it affects your social life, but everything we experience in our lives that makes us feel unsuccessful or unhappy reveals itself in a different way. Especially when this problem occurs in bilateral relations, its impact is greater on your entire life.
Another study mentioned that there was a relationship between participants’ sexual satisfaction, body image and themselves. When women do not experience this satisfaction, they begin to dislike themselves, find themselves inadequate, lose their trust, and experience sexual alienation from their partners.
The woman, whose self-confidence is broken and starts to dislike herself, exhibits attitudes such as jealousy and cold behavior within the family. Afterwards, the spouse who was treated coldly begins to react negatively because he cannot control the issue.
While you are rushing to do many things, do not put yourself in the background on such an issue, and do not reflect these on your general life and family life.
Highlight your romantic and passionate side..
Don’t break your self-confidence!
Love yourself in every way you are. Just be aware. Find out why you are not satisfied and how you can be, talk about it with your partner. This will enable you to overcome the biggest obstacle in front of you.