It is normal for your sex life to drop from time to time. However, you need to make an effort to increase these decreases again. There are simple steps you should take to make both yourself and your partner happy during sexual intercourse. Sex experts have revealed everything there is to know about erotic plans and how understanding what they mean can really boost your sex life.
EROTIC PLAN IS A MAP FOR YOU
The concept of an erotic plan was coined by somatic sexologist and educator Jaiya, who spent decades researching the science of arousal and pleasure. According to Jaiya, an erotic plan is a map of what turns you on. Just as love languages are intended to help us understand how we give and receive love, erotic plans can provide insight into the myriad ways we experience arousal. Your erotic plan consists of everything that turns you on and off.
KNOWING YOUR EROTIC PLAN RISES YOUR AWARENESS
Therefore, knowing exactly how your erotic plan works can help you increase your self-awareness in the bedroom, improve communication between you and your partners, and better understand what excites you. There are five erotic plans. These; sensual, sexual, energetic, perverse and shapeshifting. Most people identify with one or two erotic plans more than others, but it is common to relate to certain aspects of all of them. The plan that resonates most with you is your primary erotic plan.
WHAT ARE EROTIC PLANS?
SENSUAL
The sensual erotic plot is all about igniting the senses. This means you invest in what you hear, see, smell, taste and touch when it comes to arousal. If you have a sensual erotic plan, you are more likely to be meticulous about your surroundings when having sex. Aromatic candles, a warm bubble bath, and a tidy bedroom are what keep the sensual type open and ready for action. Someone with a sensual erotic plan may also want to explore stimulations in other parts of the body besides the genitals. Other erogenous zones such as the nape, back of the knee, and earlobes are all potential kryptonite for the sensual type.
SEXUAL
This direct erotic plot is focused on nudity, orgasm and genitals. If you have a sexual plan – all you need to go from zero to 100 on the arousal meter may be to see a picture of your naked girlfriend. And if your partner has a sexual erotic plan, that doesn’t mean you have to make an effort to open them up, but reaching orgasm may be easier. Kissing and touching them can be an easy way to be stimulated regardless of your surroundings.
ENERGETIC
For those with an energetic plan, anticipation is everything. What makes foreplay particularly important for this style is the longing that starts the engine of the energetic genre. Teasing, flirting and creating excitement for upcoming sex is almost as arousing (if not more) than sex itself. Therefore, having sex can be a means of arousal for the energetic. Getting excited with sexy texts and pictures before a face-to-face encounter can make for an extremely horny affair.
KINKY
The bizarre erotic plot revolves around what polite society typically sees as taboo or sexually deviant. People with this style often explore role-playing and elaborate sexual fantasies that are “vanilla” or divergent from the mainstream. Wax game, captivity and experiments with power dynamics can be found in the arousal arsenal of the perverted type. While people in this category may not need to bend over to be aroused, exploring these desires can help them experience deeper, more intense excitement.
SHAPE SHIFTER
This style brings a little bit of every plan to the table. The shapeshifter feeds off his partner’s energy and often gets the greatest pleasure from seeing them open. The shapeshifter is very adaptable and intuitive and can jump in and out of any sexual style in response to their partner’s stimulation. If you’re a shapeshifter, you may feel most excited when you align with your partner’s plan, match their mood, and play to their greatest excitement.