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There is a fine line between humility and lack of self-confidence. This difference is perceptible by the sentences we use when we express ourselves. Here are nine, which reflect a blatant lack of self-confidence.
Lack of self-confidence can be easily spotted in insecure people both by their behavior but also by the phrases they use. Here are nine.
“I am sorry but…”
People who lack self-confidence tend to apologize for anything and everything. So, the expression “I’m sorry, but…” is a classic sign of low self-esteem. It’s a defensive mechanism, a way to soften the blow before expressing an opinion or making a statement. Apologizing for having an opinion or thought reflects a fear of confrontation.
“I guess …”
The expression “I guess…” is another sign of low self-confidence. People who use this type of phrase are also afraid of being judged if they express their opinion directly.
“Does that make any sense ?”
The phrase “Does that make any sense?” is common among those who lack self-confidence. This subtly implies that you do not trust your ability to communicate effectively or that you doubt the value of what you are saying.
“I’m not an expert, but…”
“I’m not an expert, but…” is a phrase many of us use when we are unsure of our knowledge or abilities. In addition to minimizing them, it also allows others to simply ignore what you are going to say.
“Maybe it’s just me…”
“Maybe it’s just me…” is another phrase commonly used by those who lack self-confidence. It’s a subtle way of distancing yourself from an opinion or observation, as if to avoid any disagreement or criticism.
“I don’t want to bother you but…”
It’s a phrase widely used by those who lack self-confidence, a subtle indication of feeling unworthy of someone’s time or attention.
“It was nothing …”
Using the phrase “It was nothing…” is a way of fending off compliments or downplaying success. It is therefore a phrase often used by those who lack self-confidence.
“I’m just lucky…”
“I’m just lucky…” is another phrase people often use to downplay their accomplishments or skills. By attributing success to luck, they avoid recognizing their own efforts or abilities.
Good in his body, good in his head!
“I can’t…”
“I can’t…” is perhaps the most damaging expression a person lacking in self-confidence can use. She immediately puts up a barrier, a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy. By telling yourself you can’t do something, you’re already setting yourself up for failure.
Slide: 25 quotes to regain self-confidence