Melissa van de Waerdt, who made the call, wanted to use the auditorium at the cemetery. It has been managed by a funeral director for two years now. He does not want to participate in the commemoration. The funeral company itself organizes a memorial event for the dead in December. The company indicated that Van de Waerdt could join the commemoration. When Van de Waerdt reported that he did not like this, funeral director Sjoukje van Krimpen refused to rent out the auditorium to her.