Like women, men also have a G-spot… or rather a P-spot for “Prostate”. Where is he ? Is it erogenous? How to stimulate it and achieve prostate pleasure without risk?
As with women, THE G point also exists in humans. It is rather called point P with reference to the “prostate”, since it is the stimulation of the prostate gland which promotes sexual arousal and pleasure.
What is a man’s G-spot?
THE “Grafenberg” G-spot, name of the German gynecologist who described this erogenous zone in women, also exists in men. But we call it point P for “Prostate” since it is the stimulation of the prostate gland – located under the bladder and crossed by the urethra– Who promotes sexual arousal and even a Orgasm very powerful in him. The prostate has a preponderant role in male sexuality since it is what produces sperm and participates in ejaculation (after filling the ejaculatory ducts, it contracts and prostatic secretions mix with the seminal fluid, the sperm then accesses the penile urethra thanks to the impulse from the prostate).
The G or P point is located inside the rectum, near the urethra and prostate.
Why is the prostate erogenous?
There area surrounding the prostate is highly innervated, “reason why a prostate massage or sodomy can provide very powerful pleasure” explains Dr. Patrick Papazian in his book “Prostate, the mysterious organ that wants you well” (Ed.L’Opportun). “Unlike penile orgasm, which is turned outwardsthe prostate orgasm is deep, internal, proceeding by microcontractions until the point of no return”, he explains. Before recalling that “in male pleasure, all the muscles of the pelvic floor play a big role, more particularly the levator ani muscles (…) thus making remote organs including the prostate vibrate with pleasure. The entire perineum is used during sexual intercourse.” To note that Prostatic pleasure often occurs without ejaculation.
THE prostate massage can be done in two ways:
► through the perineumpressing hard enough in the area between the anus and the testicles,
► or in inserting a finger directly into the rectum (through the anus). This particularly sensitive area can be tamed with great delicacy and gentleness. There gun dog position, knees drawn towards you, or position on the back, the buttocks raised on a cushion, the knees bent or brought towards you, generally facilitate access to this erogenous zone. “As a couple or alone, no need to commit to performance or try to reach orgasm in 5 minutes. Relax, don’t stay in apnea, circulate the pleasure throughout the body and fully enjoy your sensations!“, advises Dr Claire Lewandowski, doctor specializing in general medicine.
What precautions to follow during prostate massage?
Stimulating the male G (or P) spot requires some precautions:
► This sensitive area must be gently massaged in order toavoid any risk of infection or tearing.
► If you use a anal sex toy, remember to equip yourself with a lubricant water-based which will allow easier insertion. The sphincter muscles will soften under the effect of lubrication.
► Also think about yourself cut nails and clean them well.
► Avoid vibrating naughty toys in this area or go slowly, without too much back and forth.
Thanks to Dr Claire Lewandowski, doctor specializing in general medicine.