Concern after Paul’s words to Isabella Löwengrip: “Red flag”

Concern after Pauls words to Isabella Lowengrip Red flag

It was at the beginning of summer 2020 as the blogger and entrepreneur Isabella Löwengrip33, met the photo artist Paul Sundvik56. Isabella and Paul have been together ever since, and when the couple celebrated three years this summer, Paul got down on one knee and proposed with a really cool diamond ring in the half million range.

The couple lives together on Lidingö, and in her blog and on Instagram Isabella updates about their everyday life with everything from travel, work and of course family life.

Paul Sundvik and Isabella Löwengrip. Image source: Stella Pictures.

Isabella Löwengrip has two children – Sally and Gillis – from his previous relationship with Odd Spangberg. She has the children every two weeks, and over the years Isabella has talked about how she feels about the every-two-week life.

“We spend so much time with each other, which is quality. When you have the children part-time, there is a completely different commitment once they are with us,” wrote Isabella in her blog.

Isabella Löwengrip. Image source: Stella Pictures.Isabella Löwengrip on having the children every two weeks: “I’m whole again”

In her blog, Isabella now writes about her feelings for the children – and she also says that Paul is not very fond of her way of expressing herself.

“The children are here! I’m whole again! But I’ve learned not to say that when Paul hears because he interprets it as saying that I’m not whole when I’m only with him. That life is somehow not enough,” writes Isabella .

She points out that she understands how he thinks, but she doesn’t think he wants to hear her answer to that question.

“As happy as I am with Paul, I don’t feel like life is 100% good, or that I’m completely happy – Unless the kids are here. Is it mean of me to say that?”, she writes.

Paul Sundvik and Isabella Löwengrip. Image source: Stella Pictures. Strong reactions to what Paul Sundvik said to Isabella Löwengrip

Isabella’s post has stirred up incredibly strong feelings among her readers, and also the podcast profile Julia Frändfors have reacted to Isabella’s blog post.

“Sickest thing I’ve read. Really. He’s almost 70 years old, right? And he reasons like that? Shivers with disgust. Poor Bella. This is really a reason to break up, I think,” she writes on Instagram.

Isabella Löwengrip and Paul Sundvik live together on Lidingö. Every other week they have the children with them. Image source: Stella Pictures.

Even in the comment field on Isabella’s blog, discussions have arisen. Some comments read:

“Not mean at all. Paul is an adult and has to understand that the love you feel for your children is something he will never come close to, not because he is not good enough but because one’s child is one’s child.”

“Eh, nothing strange at all. It would be rather strange if you didn’t feel that way.. he who is very ridiculous, on the other hand, who reasons the way he does… one’s children are one’s children! They are one’s everything.”

“Not mean, it is Paul who is extremely ignorant. I myself am childless but would never express myself so stupidly. Of course life is not 100% without the children IF you have children, he must understand that at his age…”

When Blogbevakning noticed Isabella’s blog posts so the reactions poured in there too. Some readers defended Paul and other comments read:

“Paul is a red flag” and “It is extremely red flag, narcissistic and controlling”.

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