That sounds simple, but a question like: “Why didn’t you tell me earlier?” already contains a judgment. “That is an accusatory question,” Reitzema explains. “You should also try not to say anything nasty about the perpetrator, because you are also confronting the child with that. Above all, let the child know that it is good that he or she told you.”
Boy (11) abused for years, why often no one notices anything
