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When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, a certain routine sets in. You know the other person and little by little, habits set in, as do mistakes to avoid. Our advice to avoid falling into this trap!
There is no manual for being in a relationship! And yet, all lovers often have to face the same mistakes. What are they and how can we avoid them? Our answers.
Adopt good communication
It is often said, but communication is the basis of a relationship. When the couple knows how to communicate, when they can talk openly and honestly about everything, the union is generally healthy and solid, in return. On the contrary, not allowing this can lead to misunderstandings, resentment and emotional distance.
Don’t take others for granted
Over time, taking your partner for granted is a common mistake. To avoid this, continue to show that you appreciate them on a daily basis and show gratitude. Small gestures of attention are essential to remind your significant other how much they mean to you.
Dealing with conflicts
Sweeping problems under the rug is never good for the longevity of the relationship. On the contrary, it will tend to increase the difficulties encountered. Resolving conflicts as they arise is crucial to maintaining a healthy relationship.
Don’t neglect your time and personal space
Some couples think that the secret to a successful relationship is to spend all their time together. On the contrary, this is often a sign of emotional dependence. A healthy couple is able to spend time apart, in order to find each other again later. This is essential in order to maintain a balance between the unity of the couple and the independence of each.
Respect your limits… and his
Boundaries are essential in every relationship and it is recommended to define them from the beginning of the relationship. Subsequently, not respecting or neglecting them is tantamount to weakening the relationship and the trust that each member of the couple has towards the other.
Stop constantly comparing yourself to others
Whether it’s with other family members, friends or social media influencers, some people are quick to compare. The risk is that this can lead to chronic dissatisfaction within the couple and unrealistic expectations.
Keep moments of intimacy at all costs
One of the common mistakes couples make is getting overwhelmed by everyday obligations and not prioritizing intimacy in the relationship. However, it is important to take time for each other in order to maintain a fulfilling relationship.
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