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In love, we often talk about toxic relationships but sometimes less about advice on how to set up a healthy union. It’s now done! Here are five tips from a love coach to succeed in attracting a “healthy relationship”.
After several failures in love, it is often necessary to question yourself. How can we explain this succession of relationships that do not work out? If you are in this situation, love coach Andréa Belacqua, @boostaconfiance on Instagram, comes to your aid.
You must take into account your past experiences
The coach’s first piece of advice is to take time to heal. Indeed, a succession of romantic failures can undermine morale and we can then think that the problem comes from ourselves. We must therefore take time to love ourselves and pamper ourselves. A crucial step to regain self-confidence after ghosting, for example.
You must be a good partner
During this time, you will take care of yourself, but also of your interior. You will also learn to appreciate this calm, when you are alone, and to “self-sufficient”. It is essential to learn to love your own company, before wanting to share it with another person.
You must know your worth
To attract a healthy person, who will meet your criteria, you must maintain your standards and not underestimate yourself. Indeed, a lack of self-confidence pushes many people (usually women) into the arms of bad boys. Hence the importance of cultivating your self-esteem, in order to meet people who will appreciate you at your true value.
Make sure you meet the right people
Many singles don’t know how to go about finding love again. Sure, dating apps or social media allow you to meet thousands of people, but it’s all virtual. To meet people in real life, go to museums, cafes, bookstores or simply parks. By going out alone to these types of places, you’re bound to end up meeting someone.
You need to work on your insecurities
Finally, the love coach recommends becoming aware of your insecurities in order to try to improve yourself. Because they are all weaknesses, which once again risk leading you to failure in love. For example, emotional dependence is one of them. So remember that generally speaking, the less you have of it, the more the chances of coming across a man who will abuse it decrease.
Once you have implemented these five tips, all you have to do is keep your eyes open to meet your soulmate!
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