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A good friend provides support and comfort in difficult times and also shares our joys. Some people around us may (ultimately) not be necessary in our lives… Here’s why you need to distance yourself from these 5 types of friends right now!
Sometimes we’ve known people for so long that they become part of our circle of friends, without really knowing why. However, people change over time and not all of them have the qualities required of a good friend. There are actually five types of friends that you don’t need to have in your life and that you shouldn’t hesitate to dismiss. Here are what they are.
The one who complains
This friend always carries negative energy. No matter what happens, he will always notice the bad side of the situation. When something is wrong, he also makes sure to repeat it and emphasize it. It is difficult to stay positive with this type of person. Besides, this friend tends to drain you, emotionally speaking.
The one who complains all the time
It’s normal to complain about a situation that doesn’t suit us from time to time. However, there is a category of people that can be called “chronic complainers.” If you have a friend who falls into this category, you know how hard they are to please. Remember that you don’t have to put up with this, as a friend.
The one who constantly criticizes
With this friend, it is impossible to launch a new idea or new goals, you will be immediately countered by a series of criticisms. You even tend to feel belittled by his words, which are both cynical and hurtful. In reality, these are people who are afraid to get out of their comfort zone and project this fear onto others.
The one who is skeptical
The skeptical friend is worse than the critic. At first, he will be supportive of your ideas, but as soon as something goes wrong, he will be there to remind you, saying that he knew it wouldn’t work (“I told you so”). By doubting your abilities, he wants to hide the fact that it is actually his own that he is not sure about.
Feel good in your body, feel good in your head!
The one who brags
This friend is easy to spot. They shout from the rooftops the good news that comes their way. This demonstrates a constant search for validation, due to their lack of self-esteem. Their confidence is based on the admiration and attention of others. That is why, when you have good news to share, they will steal the spotlight and outdo you, instead of simply being happy for you.
In short, it is important to remember that a true friend is someone who inspires you, encourages you, and should make you feel good about yourself. It can be hard to end a harmful friendship, but remember that you are doing it to become a better version of yourself, while making room for better people to enter your life.
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