Communication is an important piece of the puzzle in a functioning relationship, but sometimes it can be difficult to say how you feel without hurting your partner.
Now tell Kalle Norwald for News24 what you should never say to someone you want to be with.
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Nyheter24 has previously talked to Kalle Norwald about how to solve problems in your relationship. Among other things, he has told how to get a closed partner to open up, and how often it is okay to argue with your partner.
Kalle Norwald then told us that quarrels are a completely natural part of human relationships:
– Many people think that conflicts are a sign that the relationship is bad, but they say that because they don’t know how to argue nicely. It is a shame, because it is rather a sign that you think and think differently.
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What should you never say to your partner?
Kalle Norwald believes that a “nice fight” is an attempt to understand the other’s feelings.
– The risk is that the conflict will become greater if you call each other ugly things or resort to personal attacks.
It is also not good to accuse your partner by using concepts like “always” and “never”.
– The fact that you react like that is actually because of your own feeling at the moment. What I mean by arguing nicely is conveying one’s own position in a reasonable way, says Norwald to Nyheter24 and adds:
– But of course it can be difficult when you are upset.
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