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With the sunny days coming, the desire to meet new partners resurfaces. A popular trend, called “SpringFling”. Decryption.
The days are getting longer, warm winter sweaters are relegated to the back of the wardrobe. Spring is here ! It’s also the time to go out a little more and meet people. This period is called “Springfling”.
A period rich in encounters
A contraction of “Spring” and “Fling” (ephemeral adventure or liaison), this trend designates a social period that comes straight from the United States – in vogue on university campuses.
““SpringFling”, as the name suggests, is often characterized by a light and festive atmosphere, during which people feel more inclined to meet new romantic partners, socialize and enjoy the company of others“, relates the dating site Seeking.com.
This is also a time when we often see an increase in social time thanks to organized events,”such as campus parties, outdoor barbecues, sporting events and outings with friends“, adds the site.
An ideal time to meet new people.
Be active and open
If the time is ideal, it is nevertheless advisable to put a little of your own – love does not always knock on the door. The idea is to be active and open to meeting people. So, to encourage meetings during “SpringFling”, the experts from the Seeking site give some advice:
- Work on yourself: “Invest in your own personal development, education and career. Improve your skills, pursue your passions and cultivate your own interests. The more you develop individually, the more suitors you attract” ;
- Present yourself in your best light: “Highlight your qualities and achievements in a subtle but effective way. Make sure your online dating profile and personal interactions reflect your self-confidence and personal success” ;
- Visit the appropriate places: “Make sure you frequent places where you are likely to meet people with similar interests and backgrounds. This may include professional events, cultural activities or selective meeting places.”;
- Demonstrate confidence and assertiveness: “Self-confidence is attractive to many people. Be sure to present a confident and positive attitude in your interactions with others, while remaining humble and respectful”;
- Be open to new experiences: “Be ready to step out of your comfort zone and explore new horizons. Be open to meeting people who may have different life experiences than you, but who share your values and goals”;
- Be authentic : “While it’s important to showcase your best qualities, it’s also essential to be authentic and honest in your interactions. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to attract a hypergamous partner, as this could eventually lead to disagreements or disappointment.”.
In summary, “To attract a quality partner during the spring, focus on your own personal growth, present yourself in the best light, hang out in the right places, demonstrate self-confidence and open-mindedness, and above all, stay authentic in your interactions”, concludes Emma Hathorn, dating expert.
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